A Very Touchy Subject

Posted on September 14, 2007
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Premature Ejaculation - Oh what a nasty thing it can be…

There are many things beyond this post that can cause Premature Ejaculation, however, I figured I would post a couple of the most common causes and solutions. If you have a PE problem not caused or easily solved by the following, the root cause is likely to require other forms of help well beyond the scope of this blog. However, the following are simple, natural and may just help you out.

Nothing like short changing yourself and your partner right in the heat of the moment. Not only is it embarrassing, you lose out on great sex. Premature ejaculation (PE) effects many men. For some, it is only occasionally (maybe after a prolonged period without sex), but for some men is it a serious problem. The effects can cause relationship stress and in some cases, the opposite effect, erectile dysfunction - the fear of PE can prevent some men from getting it up.

So what’s a guy to do?

Well, one of the first things to consider is the root cause. For many men, PE is due to a lack of sex, and when they are with a partner, the excitement and heightened pleasure is just to stimulating. For very young men, it can just be just age and raging hormones. But if you are the typical guy, chances are your sexual encounters are fairly regular. So, if you are having sex on a regular basis, but still cum to fast - what are the solutions?

In many cases, PE is prominent in men who focus to much on intercourse and not enough on foreplay. Sure, there are times when a passionate quicky is great, but most of the time, your partner will love lots of foreplay. When you focus on giving pleasure to your partner through massage, cunnilingus etc., you are effectively taking your mind off your PE problem. In addition, if you have a steady partner and still cum to fast, she will be much more forgiving if you have given her a few orgasms before intercourse - she is also more likely to cum faster herself. Practice extending foreplay and you may find that over time, the lack of self-imposed performance pressure will begin to help you enjoy other aspects of sex and gradually reduce your PE problem.

Using Artificial Means To Prevent Premature Ejacualtion…

You may be able to train yourself to control PE. In fact, the makers of the world famous Fleshlight have created a product and web site specifically to help men increase their sexual stamina and extend intercourse! It is called “Legends Gym” and provides both physical and emotional guidance for men suffering from Premature Ejaculation. The web site recommends the purchase of their “Stamina Training Unit“, but it is not required to use the web site and I highly recommend checking it out.

The idea is simple, masturbate on a regular basis using their VERY REALISTIC FEELING Fleshlight the “Stamina Training Unit” along with the instructions on their web site and slowly, you will increase your staying power.

This does work and I can vouch for it. I had a bit of problem in this area and by using my Fleshlight Pink Lady, was able to last longer with my girlfriend. You see, the Fleshlight is so close to the real thing, that when you are having actual intercourse, your sensitivity has decreased, allowing you to last longer.

Now these suggestions, may or may not help you out, but one idea costs you nothing, and the Fleshlight is priced so low at $59.00, that it is seriously worth a try - at the very least, you’ll have a sex toy that feels incredible!

Good luck, and may your pecker stay harder longer!

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